tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10702485.post116662771344675138..comments2023-07-30T10:21:46.790-05:00Comments on Kitten Yarn ^ . . ^ ~: Reflections on Motherhood at ChristmasAlipurrhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15374786444894161920noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10702485.post-1166742851486767262006-12-21T17:14:00.000-06:002006-12-21T17:14:00.000-06:00Bless you - from reading your blog I know you are ...Bless you - from reading your blog I know you are a wonderful mother. Like alissa I too resented my second pregnancy and was given a child with special needs. He is grown now and in a special place where the people love him and take care of him since I no longer can. I loved him and took care of him as long as I could.doubleknothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13770447988787944018noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10702485.post-1166668029367626822006-12-20T20:27:00.000-06:002006-12-20T20:27:00.000-06:00All pregnancies are God's gifts to us and meant to...All pregnancies are God's gifts to us and meant to be. I loved your post very much and can't wait to hear what gender this child will be.Sandy Hatcher-Wallacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15011307599473627922noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10702485.post-1166644391168915822006-12-20T13:53:00.000-06:002006-12-20T13:53:00.000-06:00My arms are waiting to hold the new baby.The thing...My arms are waiting to hold the new baby.<BR/><BR/>The thing about grandmothers is that no matter how many grandbabies there are, there's always room on grandma's lap for one more and more love than can be counted to go around.<BR/><BR/>Your loving back-rubber. MotherkittyMotherkittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05112722238053618079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10702485.post-1166638417274228102006-12-20T12:13:00.000-06:002006-12-20T12:13:00.000-06:00Alissa, you should stop feeling guilty. You are a ...Alissa, you should stop feeling guilty. You are a wonderful and loving mom, and no matter how much of a struggle the beginning was, he will remember what happens now much more. I think God picked you especially for him. You gotta forgive yourself, and like you said go from here.<BR/><BR/>Dad, that is really sweet to sayAlipurrhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15374786444894161920noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10702485.post-1166635237620939652006-12-20T11:20:00.000-06:002006-12-20T11:20:00.000-06:00In your dad's point of view you are no different t...In your dad's point of view you are no different than Mary. Your child is a daughter or son of god. We are one. We are son's and daughters of god. That is the message I get from Jesus and the Apostles. We are all chosen to be.<BR/>Merry Christmas.tomlaureld@yahoo.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04417166446425359371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10702485.post-1166634699648202012006-12-20T11:11:00.000-06:002006-12-20T11:11:00.000-06:00My second pregnancy was unplanned and, at the time...My second pregnancy was unplanned and, at the time, very much unwanted. It may sound incredibly harsh to say, but at the time it was true. I felt so very guilty for having those feelings, and I was convinced that the innocent little baby growing inside of me knew that it wasn't wanted. It wasn't unloved, just resented for it's very presence. I had a horrible time being pregnant and was sick and miserable the entire time. <BR/><BR/>That little unplanned for baby is now 3 1/2, and very much loved and wanted. I can't imagine my life without him. I can only figure God had a reason for giving him to me, although I may never know exactly what that reason was/is. I still carry a whole lot of guilt with me for my feelings during my pregnancy with him. All I can do now, though, is love him and his brother with all my heart and go from here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com